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  • Lovely Things to Do, Eat, & See in Paris (With or Without Kids)

    25.05.2023 • Category: Places

    Adventures in Paris for the beauty-seekers


    slow travel Paris city guide

    I’ve loved Paris for as long as I can remember; my mother’s godmother lived there when I was little, so we would visit regularly, and I got a taste for it from a young age.

    I have a theory that everyone has a particular affinity with one city in the world, the city where you have an extra bounce in your step and a special sparkle in your eyes. You’ll put up with little inconveniences and oddities with extra patience and optimism; something that might deeply irritate someone else about a city will be written off as an understandable quirk when you’re in your city. (Case in point: Yes, I know the Metro stinks of urine. I don’t care—part of its charm, non?) You look at it with the indulgent eyes of a lover, forgiving of faults and hyper aware of the magic and charm. For one dear friend of mine this place is Venice, for my older sister it’s New York, and for me it’s always been Paris.

    “But Paris was a very old city and we were young and nothing was simple there, not even poverty, nor sudden money, nor the moonlight, nor right and wrong nor the breathing of someone who lay beside you in the moonlight.”
    ― Ernest Hemingway, A Moveable Feast

    As a teenager I used to day-dream about living as a writer in Paris in a tiny attic apartment at the top of a building with a spiral staircase and peeling paint on the walls, and I got to live out that dream for a few months in between finishing school and starting university. It was during that time, improving my French and living alone for the first time in my life, that my relationship with Paris was firmly cemented.

    I felt a little lonely, discovering that more often than not my jokes got lost in translation in the tentative new friendships I was forming with my peers (the fact that the French don’t have a word for “excited” that works as a direct translation, and that I bumped up against this issue basically every time I tried to get to know someone new, tells you a lot about the difference between me and French culture, I think). But I also experienced the thrill of young adult independence in the most beautiful of cities, wandering by the Seine, people-watching in cafés and park squares. I spent hours every week in the Musée D’Orsay and sketching the Greek marbles in the Louvre long after the tourists had left for the day, on special evenings when they kept the museums open late with free entry for young people and students.

    It was in Paris that I first learned to be at peace in my own company for long stretches of time, as well as learning the practicalities of how to look after myself in a big city, so I suppose it’s not surprising that I feel most in touch with the independent, carefree, and wide-eyed parts of myself when I’m there.

    Now, many years later I’m married to a medieval historian who specialises in French baronial power and needs to use the libraries and archives in Paris regularly. He asked me to marry him in my favourite café in the Marais, and these days we spend a month or so in Paris together as a family every summer so that we can be together while he does the bulk of his research. He spends his days in the Bibliothèque Nationale and the archives, while our girls and I wander in parks and museums, to meet up at the end of the day for delicious simple picnic suppers of baguette and cheese.

    Because we usually stay with friends when we go to Paris and are more often than not on a tight budget, I’m no expert on Michelin starred restaurants or luxurious places to stay, but as a Paris lover and avid beauty-seeker with a fierce sweet tooth who has a lot of experience hanging out with kids in the city, I do have a lot of recommendations for affordable and beautiful places to go and things to see. I believe in slow travel wherever possible, taking your time in one place to experience it as much as a local as you can.

    While there are so many Paris city guides out there already, I always get asked by friends and Instagram followers for my personal recommendations, so I figured it would save me some time to write everything down in once place, if nothing else. I’ll keep adding to this blog post over the years as I discover new wonderful places, so be sure to bookmark it so you can come back to it when you’re planning your next trip to the loveliest city in the world.

    Beautiful cultural spots in Paris (museums, churches, and areas to wander)

    Sainte-Chapelle, Paris

    You know the classics already: the Louvre if you want to see the Mona Lisa (overrated in my opinion), Greek marbles and the like, Musée d’Orsay for the Impressionists (my favourite of the big and famous museums), Notre-Dame (currently closed for renovations after the fire of 2019), the steps of the Sacré-Cœur Basilica for beautiful panoramic views of the city… But here are some of my favourite (slightly) lesser-known cultural gems in Paris. 

    The Left Bank

    Saint-Chapelle: Located on the Île de la Cité in the Palais de la Cité (the medieval residence of the Kings of France), this gorgeous Gothic chapel used to house King Louis IX’s relics, including the Crown of Thorns (which were later moved to Notre-Dame Cathedral). Walking into this gorgeous space is like walking into a jewel box, surrounded by the most beautiful stained-glass windows you’ll likely ever see. It’s a small space, but make sure to take your time to soak in all the beauty (there are chairs around the edge so you can sit and stare). 

    Shakespeare & Company: Shakespeare & Company is an English language bookshop within sights of Notre-Dame founded by Sylvia Beach in 1919 and famous for being a creative hub for the likes of Hemingway and F. Scott Fitzgerald in the 1920s. Yes, it’s a bit of a tourist cliché, swarming with pretentious literati-types, but I can’t help it, I love to browse here and it would be obnoxiously hipster of me to try and deny it. I love that there are beds nestled in amongst the books upstairs for the writers and artists who come to stay and work there (known as “tumbleweeds”). I worked here briefly during my stay in Paris when I was nineteen, mostly to experience the joys of people-watching, and a drunk French man told me I looked like Nicole Kidman, so there you go. That’s the kind of magic (or bullshit) that happens when you visit Shakespeare & Co. 

    Musée de Cluny (Musée National du Moyen Âge): This museum of the Middle-Ages is located on the Left Bank, not too far from the Île de la Cité and Shakespeare & Co if you’re wandering over from that direction. It will give you a good glimpse of an older Paris, the one that pre-dates the Paris of Haussmann and his grand sweeping boulevards. My mother has always had a fascination with the famous unicorn tapestries that are housed in this museum, and so I have core childhood memories of standing in the dimly-lit tapestries room, asking questions in hushed tones, and marvelling at the details of wild strawberries and wildflowers on these magical tapestries.

    L’église Saint-Etienne-du-Mont: My all-time favourite church in Paris, tucked away behind the grand Panthéon in the Latin Quarter. I love the delicate white stonework, which is carved to look like lace. This church dates from the late 15th century, and contains a shrine with some relics of the patron saint of Paris, St. Geneviève. This is a lovely, peaceful place to stop and linger a while.

    The Right Bank

    One of my favourite areas to wander around is the Place des Vosges and the area around it, the Marais; it’s full of pretty boutiques and lovely little shady squares and gardens to get lost in.

    Musee de l'Orangerie, Paris, Monet's waterlilies

    Musée de l’Orangerie: Just across the river from the Musée d’Orsay, nestled at the bottom of the Jardin des Tuileries, the Musée de l’Orangerie makes a lovely add-on to a visit to the Musée d’Orsay. There’s not much to this museum, so maybe one to skip if you’re not a hardcore Monet or modern art fan, but the main light-filled upper room with the large Monet waterlilies is worth the entry fee for those who are. I could stand and stare at those canvases for ages; it’s the perfect space in which to see these beautiful paintings.

    Petit Palais: A short walk onwards along the river from the Musée de l’Orangerie you’ll find the Petit Palais, opposite the impressive Grand Palais (I think the Petit Palais is much prettier). I love this beautiful little museum mostly just because the architecture of the place is such a dream and worth a look in its own right regardless of the artwork in this museum, but also because there’s a gorgeous museum café in the interior courtyard garden. The Petit Palais is a lovely place to wander, and permanent collections are free.

    Musée de la Vie Romantique

    Musée de la Vie Romantique: At the foot of Montmartre there’s a lovely house with pale green shutters and climbing roses. It’s been converted into a little museum (entry to the permanent collection is free), with a garden and a romantic café in an old-fashioned glass and wrought iron greenhouse.

    Musée de Montmartre: While you’re in the area, a short walk away from the busy tourist-filled Place du Tertre up on Montmartre hill is the Musée de Montmartre, an interesting place to visit to explore some of the history of the Montmartre area and the many artists who have lived and worked there. There’s a lovely garden dedicated to Renoir, complete with the swing that inspired his famous painting (the artist had a studio in the building complex). 

    My favourite places for tasty treats (pâtisseries, chocolatiers, and the best sorbet you’ll ever taste)

    Berthillon wild strawberry sorbet, Paris

    Berthillon ice cream: If you only taste one thing in Paris, make it the wild strawberry sorbet from the best glacier in town. It’s a total dream—it takes a lot to persuade me away from chocolate, but I’m serious about this. If they’re out of wild strawberry (“la fraise des bois”), just try any of their other fruit sorbets—as the Parisian friend who introduced me to Berthillon said, “It tastes like the fruit itself.” You’ll find the Berthillon headquarters on the main road that runs through Saint Louis en l’île (near Notre-Dame Cathedral), but there are also plenty of cafés and hole-in-the-wall ice cream sellers on Saint Louis en l’île who also sell Berthillon ice cream (just look for their name and logo or if in doubt, ask the seller if it’s Berthillon). Only in Paris would you find an ice cream-maker who takes the whole month of August off, so be aware they are closed for much of this month and you’ll need to source the sorbet from another seller on Saint Louis en l’île.

    Du Pain et des Idées: This award-winning bakery is famous for its amazing “escargots” pastries—like pain au raisin, but in all different flavours (salted caramel, pistachio, summer fruits…) up near Porte Saint-Denis and the Canal St Martin (towards Gare du Nord and Gare de l’Est). A bit out of the way if you’re not staying close by, but well worth a visit if you’re motivated by your stomach.

    Patrick Roger: One thing I love about Parisian chocolatiers is that no matter how fancy the shop, they generally let you buy just a couple of pieces of chocolate in a sachet, costing a few euros (rather than a whole expensive box). Fun fact, I once spent a day going around all the chocolate shops of Paris comparing them all, and Patrick Roger was my favourite for their creativity of flavours and finesse of chocolate-making.

    Sébastien Gaudard: This, in my opinion, is the best pâtisserie and a lovely little salon de thé with a branch near the Louvre, Rue de Rivoli. (Don’t fall for the more touristy Angelina’s around the corner, this one is much better!)

    Carette: Another lovely salon de thé with macarons and delicious bite-size cakes, petit fours, with a café in the Place des Vosges. My girls and I like to buy a few tiny cakes to take away and eat in the park.

    The food hall, La Grande Épicerie, in Le Bon Marché on the Left Bank is a dangerous place for me, as I can get lost in there for hours, but I do love to buy special picnic items and gifts here. The whole Rue du Bac area is a treat to wander around if you want to do some shopping or window shopping.

    Lovely Parisian restaurants, cafés, and bars 

    Café Hugo: Enjoy a croque madame and citron pressé (and some jazz in the evenings, sometimes) looking out over the Place des Vosges. This is the café around the corner from where I used to live in Paris, and where my husband asked me to marry him, and probably my favourite spot to sit and daydream under the arches. (Oh, and I recently had the most delicious frites of my life here; they were cooked with truffle and parmesan. So, so good.)

    Le Mary Celeste: This bar serves lovely craft cocktails in the Marais district.

    Le Train Bleu, Paris

    Le Train Bleu: An old-school gourmet restaurant in the Gare de Lyon which is as much a feast for the eyes as anything else. The ornate ceilings are painted with scenes from all of the places that the trains can take you from the station. 

    La Maison Rose, Paris

    La Maison Rose: This sweet pink-walled restaurant in Montmartre is teeny tiny and I would say that it’s not worth all the Instagrammers who crowd around to take pictures, but truthfully it is. The menu is limited, using local seasonal ingredients, and everything I’ve ever eaten here has been utterly delicious. My husband gets frustrated with the aloof and tourist-weary table service (though actually, in my experience the staff are really kind, but hate it, for example if you try to order starters as your main meal, etc.), and the small portion size, but I love it and now just take my daintier friends there instead of trying to make a date-night of it (Le Train Bleu is much more his style). I’m still day-dreaming about the divine honey-apricot-chili-chicken dish I had there a few summers ago… It’s worth booking (you can do this online via their website) because there aren’t many tables and it can take the edge off the staffs’ suspicions that you’re only there to take photos.

    Bobance bar & cave à manger near Metro Pernety in the Montparnasse area: This is a great place for wine lovers, the concept being that you describe what kind of wine you like and they’ll match you with something new to try. 

    Second-hand and vintage clothing shops in Paris

    vintage clothing shops in Paris

    KiloShop second-hand clothing shop, Paris

    Free’p’Star Saint Antoine is just across the road from Metro St Paul, around the corner from the Place des Vosges. It’s tiny and a bit shambolic and easy to miss with an unassuming beige frontage and scruffy-looking piles of clothes in the windows, but is the kind of place where you’ll find pure Italian silk vintage skirts with the tags still on, and other gems, for 5-10 euros. When you’re looking for this place, it’s worth noting that there are lots of other, fancier Free’p’Star shops around Paris. I don’t know why this one is so different to the others in price and style when it goes under the same brand name, but it’s the best and most unassuming vintage clothing shop I’ve found in Paris to date.

    Mamz'Elle Swing vintage clothing shop in Paris

    Mamz’Elle Swing vintage clothing shop, Paris

    Then, if you walk on down the road from Saint Paul in the Marais down towards Hôtel de Ville, you’ll find plenty of vintage shops along the route. If you’ve got a bigger budget and are looking for proper designer vintage rather than a bargain, you’ll want to check out the glamorous pink-fronted little shop, Mamz’Elle Swing, on Rue du Roi de Sicile.

    There’s also a line of second-hand clothing shops called “KiloShop” with a few different locations in Paris, including one near Hôtel de Ville in the Marais that you can stop at if you’re following my suggested route walking from St Paul to Hôtel de Ville. All items are colour-coded, weighed, and put in different price brackets (I don’t love this way of doing things, as I’m mathematically challenged and so just find it hard to tell how much things cost without a label to simply tell me!), and they have a bit of a range of modern second-hand and proper vintage clothing. Lots of reasonably priced treasure to be found, and it’s very well-organised.

    Chinemachine vintage Paris

    Chinemachine vintage clothing shop, Paris

    Montmartre is another good area for vintage clothing hunting, with places like Chinemachine and Marchand d’Habits (on Rue Houdon), both near Metro Abbesses.

    After you’ve trawled the fripperies (French for second-hand clothing, vintage, or thrift shop) for treasure, you might want to replace buttons, or add a new ribbon to your finds. Or perhaps you’re the kind of person who gets a little giddy when faced with rows of glass jars full of sparkling beads and walls of rainbow-coloured yarn. If so, La Droguerie near Les Halles is a wonderful place for fabric, buttons, ribbons, and beads, and Entrée des Fournisseurs in the Marais is another gorgeous haberdashery I used to beg my mother to take me every time we visited Paris when I was a little girl.

    A hidden gem for a few nights away or Sunday brunch in the countryside near Paris 

    l’Hôtel Abbaye des Vaux de Cernay (closed for renovations until late 2023): My husband and I stumbled across this magical place one beautiful Autumn day as we were driving a rented car around the countryside outside of Paris, looking for the burial place of a medieval Baron that he was writing a book about. I’ll never forget the sight of the smoke curling out of the chimneys of the 12th century converted Cistercian monastery framed by flaming golden trees as we approached. With its turrets, secret passageways, and huge roaring fires, this place feels like it belongs in a fairytale.

    Their Sunday brunch is renowned locally, attracting Parisians for celebrations and days out, so even if you’re not staying at the hotel, I recommend booking a table and escaping the city for the day (you’ll need to get a train and then a taxi, so it takes some dedication, but it’s totally worth it).

    A few lovely hotels and places to stay in Paris

    As I said, we’re lucky enough to have friends in Paris who let us stay in their apartment while they’re away for the summer, so I’m not an expert in Parisian hotels. But, here are a few nice ones (generally on the more affordable end of the spectrum) that I’ve come across:

    Saint-Louis en l’Ile

    The Left Bank

    Hotel des Grandes Ecoles

    Hotel Verneuil, St Germain

    Hotel Henriette

    Hotel des Beaux-Arts

    Hotel Cabane, Montparnasse

    The Right Bank

    Hotel Jean d’Arc

    The Hoxton, Paris

    Hotel Bienvenue

    If you want to self-cater, there are of course plenty of Airbnb options (I made a list of some that caught my eye, here). If you’re looking for an alternative to Airbnb, this is one of the few (relatively) affordable apartments on Haven in Paris. I also like the look of this one bed apartment in the Latin Quarter and this pretty little apartment for two in the same area (they warn that this one is in a noisy street, explaining the price), as well as this little studio apartment (affordable because the bed is a sofa bed!) in the Saint-Germain-des-Prés neighbourhood, all via Paris Perfect.

    A few ideas for places to go in Paris with kids

    Jardin du Luxembourg: Little wooden sailboats for hire, an old-fashioned carrousel, a big adventure playground, pony rides, a punch and judy-style puppet theatre… We love spending time here as a family because there are so many iconically Parisian activities to keep everyone entertained. With or without kids, you can also enjoy reading in the shade on one of their civilised little green chairs. (Just don’t move them, or you might get told off by the scary park officials. I’ve never figured out what the rules about the chairs are, truthfully, but I know there are rules that I’ve accidentally broken many a time.)

    There is a café in the park, but it’s often busy and very expensive. If you need an alternative café nearby for a sandwich and toilet stop, I recommend Judy on Rue des Fleurus; the staff are lovely and friendly (I’ve taken my kids many times). 

    Muséum National d’Histoire Naturelle: We spent a whole day here enjoying their air conditioning one the hottest day of August a few years ago, and there was plenty to keep our kids occupied.

    Jardin d’Acclimatation: This is our annual treat for the kids. A kind of waterpark-meets-petting-zoo-meets-tasteful-amusement-park, Jardin d’Acclimatation has areas for kids to play in jets of water while the adults watch from deck chairs and lots of fun rides and animals. If you’re visiting, plan to spend a whole day here and bring a picnic with you.


    I could go on and on, there are just so many wonderful places to visit in Paris… But I hope this guide makes a helpful starting point.

    I’ll keep adding to this list as I discover more of the city over the years. And, in the meantime, if I’ve missed a favourite spot of yours that you think I need to check out next time I’m in Paris, let me know in the comments! Wishing you beautiful adventures,

    Sophie xo


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