1. The Writing Habit: “What would you say is the number one biggest struggle you find your clients face with their writing projects, and do you have any quick advice as a starting point for working through it?”
There is no course, diploma, or stamp of approval that will make sharing your work feel easy.
2. The Writing Habit: “How, in reality, do you get from ideas, characters, even scene ideas, to an actual book taking physical shape? I often feel I have so many ideas for books, but I don’t know how to take steps toward writing chapter or organising my thoughts in any real way.”
You have to start writing and figure out what kind of writer you are; it’s not something that can be learned in advance of writing the book. You learn how to do this by taking the leap and putting words on the page day after day.
3. The Writing Habit: “Can you tell us a bit about the process of publication? How should I go about getting in touch with publishers/what should I do once I’ve written something?”
If you want to publish traditionally, it’s unlikely you would go straight to a publisher. The first step would be getting an agent. Terra Chalberg of Chalberg & Sussman discussed that process in episode #25. There is also a case for independent publishing as well, and the amazing Joanna Penn discusses how she makes a sustainable living from writing as an independent author in episode #84.”
4. The Writing Habit: “The biggest struggle for me is to write beautiful and natural-sounding conversations. Do you have any advice for writing dialogue well?”
Caroline: “Love this question! A tip from me: I try dictating dialogue-heavy scenes and then having them transcribed with Dragon Naturally speaking software. I find the dialogue comes much more naturally when I have to speak it out loud as I write. In addition, I spoke with Wesley Brown in episode #57, who compared the process of writing dialogue with jazz music. This conversation changed how I thought about dialogue completely.”
5. The Writing Habit: “I’d love to hear about how writing on a personal blog has played into the development of a writer’s work. I am beginning a blog and would like to see how they used this platform as a way to develop their career or their writing in general. How did they gear it toward writing?”
As a general rule, I would say blogging has the most impact on nonfiction writing and platform building, but plenty of fiction authors do it as well. For her fiction, Joanna Penn (writing as JF Penn) has a separate blog with photos and stories about the research trips she takes for her thriller novels and people love it.
If you want to blog, it can be incorporated. But, if you are dreading doing it, then I would stick to writing your book and stay with a platform you enjoy; I love podcasting as my way to share content, so I do that much more often than I blog. I write an article a few times a year that I feel is truly useful, and spend the rest of my writing time on books I’m working on.”
6. The Writing Habit: “How do you make time for writing? I have small kids, and it’s always a huge struggle.”
In addition, try not to make it about a polarity of neglecting your writing or neglecting your family. It doesn’t have to come down to that. Look at other things that can be handled differently. Can another member of the family make dinner a couple of days a week, even if it’s just frozen pizza? Can you hire a local teenager for a few hours one afternoon or evening a week to watch the kids? Do you have friends with little kids and you can all swap watching each others kids to free up a couple of evenings a month? Often the guilt moms feel about putting anything above their children makes them feel its not acceptable to take more time for writing. My friend Milda Harris is a total inspiration to me, with young twins and a thriving writing career. She’s another great episode to listen to about this issue.”
7. The Writing Habit: “I have a fear of exposing myself too much, which is rooted in a fear of vulnerability, and a fear of failing or of others thinking my writing isn’t good. Do you have any advice?”
You decide whether or not it’s good and whether or not you get to keep writing. Choose in favour of growth for you.
1. You can’t fix a blank page
“In my conversation with V.E. Schwab (episode #38), she makes a very strong case for accepting that in your first draft, your idea and what it looks like on the page will be the farthest apart, and in revision you can get it closer to what you imagined. But, if you never write the first crappy draft, there’s no way to get closer and closer and reach your final book.”
2. Great careers don’t need to start in the early 20s
“Kit De Waal (episode #96) didn’t start writing until her 40s and published for the first time in her 50s. Writing is her second career, and she has created a movement and a tremendous following in the UK, which is spreading to the US—very inspiring for any writer over 25 who feels like they’ve missed the boat.”
3. Overnight success is a myth, and you wouldn’t want it anyway
“Jojo Moyes (episode #90) is the author of the international bestseller, Me Before You, which was later made into a film. Moyes wrote 3 novels that didn’t sell, and a total of 8 novels before she had a hit. Does she regret it? Not at all. The time spent writing as a less famous author made her a better writer and prepared her for the pressure that a mega hit created.”
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I hope you found this advice as helpful and inspiring as I did. You can find out more about Caroline at her website, and if you haven’t already signed up to my monthly newsletter and online community for busy people who want to make more time for their creative writing, you can join us, here—it’s free, and every month I share advice like this from other writers, along with a writing prompt and tools to help you develop the writing habit of your dreams. Happy writing, friends!